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Ezilungileyo guy unako rhoqo bazive awkwardly ibambe kwi phakathi ezimbini extremes intlanganiso elungileyo kubekho inkqubela e a bar club okanye i-intanethi dating inkonzo. Ngexesha ndiyazi ezimbalwa abahlobo, abo bathe kokuba impumelelo kuzo zombini arenas, lohlobo okulungileyo guy ideally ungathanda ukuhlangabezana kubekho inkqubela yakhe amaphupha wakhe habitat. Uphi okulungileyo guy s habitat? Ke indawo uziva uninzi ethambileyo. Kufuneka ube ngokwakho ukuba ufuna ukuthatha yakhe ingqalelo, ngoko kwakutheni brainstorm ezinye iindawo zakho ezilungileyo kubekho inkqubela abe ukulinda. Iindawo Apho Elungileyo Guy Unako Kuhlangana Elungileyo kubekho inkqubela kufuneka kukunika a iqala ndawo. Xa ehamba ngokusebenzisa UCLA campus kwiiveki ezimbalwa eyadlulayo, umhlobo kwaye kum ncamathiselamessage status a guy kuza inkqubo ngaphandle gym ukuba buza kubekho inkqubela kuba kuyo inani. Kudos ngomhla wakhe isibindi. Yena blushed, kwaye lowo onayo imivo. Yakho kubekho inkqubela abe at LA Fitness, okanye nkqu YMCA. Cinga ngaphandle ibhokisi ye-lohlobo ziko kakhulu. Zama abanye CrossFit iintlobo, indoor kolwalwa climbing, coed softball league, okanye umphandle imizila. Ukuba ukhe ubene ngenene brave, zama yoga, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo Cardio Barre (uza kuba kuphela dude). Omnye wam abahlobo zifunyenweyo umfazi wakhe ngelixa ukuqhuba amanqwanqwa kwi-Santa Monica. Ndiye kwizifundo i-Engabonakaliyo Abantwana ke Wesine Ilifa Ngqungquthela kwiiveki ezimbalwa edlulileyo, kwaye mna, nento yokuba unokuthi ababukeli bomdlalo bangene, waba girls. Hayi nje na girls, nangona. Ezi zezinye young abafazi abo ufuna ukwenza umahluko ehlabathini. Nge ukuba uhlobo indoda nomfazi ukuba ibhinqa ulwalamano, elungileyo guy ebotshiwe ukufumana phupha lakhe kubekho inkqubela ukumsukela. Omnye wam abahlobo zahlangana lakhe kubekho inkqubela at i-Latino Leadership Inkomfa. Ukuba ukhe ubene kwi college, cinga yokufumana abakwicandelo isigrike organizations, campus ministries, njalo-njalo. Yakho eyona imali kukuba rhoqo a busier indawo. I-uluhlu lophinda-phindo ingaba zonke kuwo, ngoko ke kufuneka futhi ke kufuneka share a ndawo. Kwakutheni share a ndawo kunye ukuze kubekho inkqubela kuwe anayithathela kokuba amehlo enu kwi? Phambi ndandisele watshata, ndaba amaninzi umhlobo ukwenza fun kum kuba ecela into incwadi a kubekho inkqubela waba ukufunda. Ngezantsi komgca, esisebenza ukuba ukhe ubene unyanisekile. Ukuyisebenzisa. Ezilungileyo girls ndiyakuthanda mentor abantwana kwaye njengoko elungileyo guy, ngoko ke ufuna. Kukho ingozi Enkulu Abakhuluwa Omkhulu Oodade kwindawo yakho? Apha kwi-LA, kukho iqela ngokuba Red Iliso, apho ingaba mentor imisebenzi wonke mgqibelo nge-e-umngcipheko ulutsha. Ukulungele ukuhlasela surprised zingaphi umgangatho girls aphume rhoqo ngeveki ukunceda ngaphandle. Kukho babe nokuba imisebenzi yakho yokuhlala ungafumana abakwicandelo ngokunjalo na Ronald McDonald Indlu, Habitat kuba Uluntu, lesondlo i-bengenamakhaya, nokubhala ibhunga, njalo-njalo. Ingaba passionate malunga nomba othile sizathu? Ungafumana elungileyo kubekho inkqubela abo sele efanayo ezopolitiko izimvo kwaye ezinzulu njengoko kufuneka. Get abakwicandelo unyulo phulo. Jonga Republican okanye Yesininzi kuhlangana-phezulu amaqela kwindawo yakho. Nantsi eminye imizekelo amanye amaqela ungafuna kuzimasa ukuba babe fit iimvakalelo zakho ezinzulu: Esierra Club, EZIMELEYO, i-american Diabetes Association, okanye nkqu NRA. I-ezimbalwa ukuba umsebenzisi kunye, iyahlala kunye. Ndiyazi a esibhedlele umlawuli abo zahlangana umkakhe kwi-golf kunjalo. Baya kudlala wonke impela-veki ngoku. Ingaba na ezi spark yenzala kuwe. Zama i-ukuphucula iklasi, ulwimi iklasi, ekuphekeni iklasi, iwayini-kokungcamla iklasi, umculo iklasi, photography kuzo zonke iingingqi u, njalo-njalo. Musa nje ukuba le lohlobo ibandla inkonzo, ngokwesiqu, okanye kwindlu yesikhungo. Get obandakanyekayo. Khangela, kwaye ubone ukuba kukho iqela elincinane okanye ibhayibhile nzulu uyakwazi kuzimasa. Jonga phezulu wobulali FCA ke, Ulutsha Ubomi uncwadi, okanye ukuba ukhe ubene kwi college, get abakwicandelo Cru. Eyona ndlela yokufumana elungileyo kubekho inkqubela ngu ngokusebenzisa abahlobo. Musa unobuhle ngaphandle ngomhla classy indlu amaqela. Nazi ezimbalwa uphumelele ukuba ufuna unobuhle: Superbowl, umhla wokuzalwa, costume amaqela, okanye nkqu umdlalo busuku. Mhlawumbi a river ukudada uhambo. Ingaba sekhe idlalwe Mafia? Omnye eyona iqela imidlalo ngonaphakade. Cofa apha ukuba ongazange weva ke kwaye ufuna ukufunda indlela ukudlala. Phezu ngonyaka edlulileyo, ndabona umfazi wam e a Generosity Amanzi fundraising msitho. Ungafumana elungileyo kubekho inkqubela e a gala kwindawo yakho kakhulu. Ujoyinela a k fundraiser, Abantwana ke Mmangaliso Womnatha ingaba i-zonke-busuku Umdaniso Marathon, njalo-njalo. Ukufumana phandle kwaye malunga. Kuba ezaziwayo yakho yokuhlala. Xa ke iza ingxowa-elungileyo kubekho inkqubela, easiest ayi best. Kulula apho uninzi guys ingaba ukhangela, nto leyo yenza umgangatho ukhuphiswano ephakamileyo. Kuba thoughtful kwaye kuba creative, kwaye uza ezahlukeneyo ukususela pack. Hayi umzekelo-icatshulwe, ezi izakhono ingaba oza kukunceda kwi-phantsi umgca kakhulu. Ezilungileyo comment kuwe okulungileyo guy swaggers. Kusigcina igqityiwe kwindlela yakho adventure. Kwaye yintoni ukuba ukhe ubene hayi kuyo nayiphi na kwezo zinto. Yintoni ukuba unengxaki isigxina umsebenzi ukuba consumes lonke ixesha lakho kwaye ubukhulu becala iqulathe babantu. Golly yintoni khetha ka-yobhi ufuna senze. Nyana wam ngu-a graduate veterinarian kwaye ubomi bakhe kanjalo consumed yi-umsebenzi, ngoko ke lowo meets abantu ngomhla tinder. Ndingumntu divorced umntu kunye grown abantwana a ndinguye ngoku ukudinwa ka-abahlala yi-ngokwam emva ekubeni kwenziwa ngoko ke kuba yokugqibela yrs. kwaye ndijonge kuba umfazi ukuba isa ngexesha lam nihamba inyathelo nje nge ubomi andinguye nawuphi na hurry simemo kwakhona kwaye ngoko ke ndijonge kuba elonyuliweyo ukuba ingaba akukho wangaphambili omiselwe-ajenda okanye uxanduva ke ndim ngoku retired kwi sokukhubazeka, ndithanda ke i-lake ubukele le-boats okanye fishing ngamanye amaxesha nyani mna nje relax kwaye athabathe lula Na Umntu unako ukufumana a million Abafazi nakuba kunjalo Kodwa kuthatha i-real Umntu uthando Umfazi a million iindlela. Ingaba ilungile kuba wayemthanda a Million Iindlela? Ndithanda vula doors kwaye bamba izandla xa ehamba phantsi street. Mna bonwabele surprising a elonyuliweyo. Ndinguye loyal, nomonde, respectful, considerate, sociable, honest kwaye romanticcomment. Ndingumntu cuddly Teddy Ubungqina kunye elikhulu uluvo humor. Ndiza a sophisticated kodwa ezantsi emhlabeni umntu othe enjoys indalo, abajikelezayo, experiencing entsha cultures, ekubeni ekhaya kwaye bechitha ixesha kunye nosapho, abahlobo, entertaining kunye, emamele ukuba umculo, candles, romance, amaqela, dancing, chocolate, iwayini, cheese, isonka, fireplaces ndingumntu widower kwaye mna ezilahlekileyo umfazi wam kwiminyaka emithathu edlulileyo kodwa ngoku ufuna kuba ndonwabe iphelisa kodwa ndiya kuba umntwana ophilayo kunye umntu ndiyathemba ukuba ahlangane izakuba spontaneous, honest kwaye vula minded umntu abo likes ukuba zithungelana, zalo lonke udidi, eshushu, intelligent, uqinisekile. Ndijonge kuba kubudlelwane apho kukho izakuba fun, laughter, friendship, uthando kwaye mutual intlonipho, ndiza ngqo umntu, kwaye ndifuna ukwakha mnandi umhlobo kubudlelwane apho yokugqibela ixesha elide kwaye zange lupheliswe umntu uhlobo kwaye, ozolisayo, ndiyayazi unga uphumile kukho kwaye kubalulekile nje mba ixesha phambi sifumanisa ngamnye ezinye ndijonge phambili ku-loo mini yakho ngentliziyo yam yonke. Ikofu iivenkile, gyms, kwaye amaqela. Ezi k ubonakala ngathi njenge ezoyikekayo iindawo kuhlangana elungileyo kubekho inkqubela. Ezi ezintathu iindawo ingaba omkhulu ukuba ufuna a liberal (sexually promiscuous), umfanekiso conscious (wenu kwaye vapid), okanye iqela chick (immature kwaye promiscuous). Kodwa elungileyo kubekho inkqubela. Akukho. Ndiyacinga ukuba oko kwiimeko apho ikofu-shop okanye gym. Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene andinaku yiya okungalunganga classy indlu amaqela. Yoh Doe apha. Appreciate impendulo. Ndine ukuthi, mna kufuneka jonga kwi hobby iindidi kwaye volunteering, ngenene okulungileyo lonikezelo. Uhlobo timid malunga nayo nangona Hayi ngenxa nokungabikho ukukholosa kodwa a jaded incopho ka-imboniselo ka-young girls mihla. Lol. Liberal ayilingani sexually promiscuous, kwaye conservative okanye Christian ayilingani okulungileyo. Ndizokwenza i-atheist kwaye liberal, kwaye ndicinga ukuba hooking phezulu ngu epheleleyo. Ndiyazi ilanlekile elungileyo girls abo kofu kwaye yokukwazi ukuyifumana. Akukho ubungqina okanye ubungqina bokuba abasetyhini zange wamthanda na abantu. Soloko abafazi sebenzisa emva into ukufumana ukusuka abantu hayi kuba umntu. Akukho impendulo kule ukuba indlela abanye umfazi. Ukuba mna ukufumana enye abo mnandi kwaye ufuna okulungileyo budlelwane nabanye, ngoko ke ndim ndonwabe. Umdaniso iindidi ziindleko bonanza kuba omnye shmuck: kuya kuba ngabasetyhini kwaye ufumane ukuba iperi. umdaniso kunye nabo. Dibanisa, njengokuba ubomi ubuchule ngayo akasoze abe wambetha, ezininzi abafazi yiya gaga kuba a guy ngubani onako umdaniso. Onke amanqaku zilungile akukho ukuthandabuza. Ndiza elula guy. musa akukho budlelwane. Ndiza ndonwabe yedwa. kwaye uzive relaxed yedwa

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