Red flagstaff kwi-Intanethi Umntu izithuba ngo Nancy Nichols

Jonga ngaphandle kuba yakhe tone

Lento yakhe thabatha kwimeko yesi-wakhe, isikhalazo? Lo ngumqondiso ukuba ukho ukudinwa, ukuze abe sele iingxaki zakhe eks, okanye ukuba yena idla ingaba hayi ngokubhekiselele abafaziUnabo i-ulterior motive, nokuba abe ngumqondiso gambler, i-impostor, okanye uthotho recluse. Lowo bragging kwaye hayi bragging? Lo ngumqondiso ka-insecurity okanye red flag a mna-iphakathi egotist. Nawuphi na kunjalo, kufuneka okokuba kuye ngelizwi. Ingaba uya kuthetha vaguely ngokwakhe wakhe, elidlulileyo? Yena ke hiding into ethile, mhlawumbi umfazi okanye girlfriend, iingxaki zemali, okanye bhiliyoni ezinye iingxaki zam.

Elokugqibela: ukuba umntu tweezes kwindlela yakho instinct, i-nomfanekiso ngqondweni ukuba izama lumkisa kuni, le guy zibe engalunganga iindaba.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho high-umgangatho kutshanje divorced abafazi kwi Dating zephondo kwaye widowed abantu abakhoyo seriously ikhangela umfazi ukwabelana nabo ubomi babo ngayo. Baya akhange na uhleli ngaphandle ngomhla street kwi-decades kwaye unako jika phandle ukuba abe clumsy kwaye awkward kwi-imeyili zabo kwaye imiyalezo. Nika ezi guys nethuba ukuba kuvavanya zabo salt phambi kwenu umgwebi.

Nazi ezinye wam nje imiyalezo esuka abantu abakufutshane lwazi, unganyanisekanga, kwaye predatory, kwaye njani mna reacted kubo.

Waba iselwa handsome, kwaye bakhe biography waba ngokuqinisekileyo clever. Mna wathumela kuye i-imeyili apha kwaye yena zange wacela ukuba intlanganiso, kodwa endaweni generated uthotho conversational imiyalezo. Nkosi, ukuba ngaba awuyidingi a usiba ii-pal, uxelele umntu ukuba ukhe ubene wasting ixesha lakho kunye nasiphelo email, enkosi, kodwa hayi enkosi. Qala ndizixelela ukuba nam kwakhona ezimbalwa jokes ukuba mna liked ukuba cook, kwaye zeziphi izinto mna liked ukuba cook, kwaye kwangoko invited ngokwam ukuba indlu yam kuba homemade sangokuhlwa."Mna, nento yokuba uthando ukuzama yakho ekuphekeni, ke mhlawumbi ngcono kunokuba ethabatha kum i restaurant. restaurant, mna eletha oyithandayo basele ukuba ufuna."Mna bamxelela ukuba,"NB: alikwazi Ukwahlula polite okanye efanelekileyo ukuba buza kuba sangokuhlwa e intlanganiso yokuqala. Okanye kwa yesibini okanye yesithathu. Linda kuba umfazi siza mema. Ndinqwenela nonke eyona ndlela ingcono kwi-uhambo lwakho."Lawyer, Umntu kwaye ndandidibana kuba basele kwaye kokuba sihle ixesha, ngoko andizange weva evela kuye kwakhona.

Yena akuthethi ukuba ngenene ufuna ukwenza i-impression

Kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva koko, lowo wandithumayo a umyalezo obhaliweyo:"Molo, ungathanda ukuba sibonane kwakhona?"Ngokuqinisekileyo,"ndathi."Ndandicinga silifumene ihamba ngenene kakuhle."Kwiiveki ezine kamva andiyenzanga kuva evela kuye, kwaye kwiiveki ezine kamva lowo wandithumayo a i-valentine ikhadi. Molo, Bella, lento kuba amehlo enu kuphela. Mna nje babefuna ukuba kubonisa ntoni mna silindele wam ezintsha neempahla. Manditsho ndiyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni emva kokuba bona iifoto. Apha unxulumano kwi-thelekisa ukuba ufuna wanika mna, ngoko uyakwazi ukubona photo ngenxa yokuba isigqibo kakhulu enkulu kuba umdlalo. Ncuma, bazalwana mhlekazi."Seyure phambi zethu ngokuhlwa ntlanganiso, lowo wandithumayo umyalezo:"Nancy, mna kufuneka kuza tonight. Ungayenza ngomhla wama-okanye mgqibelo."Kubalulekile yalandelwa"Nje ukufumana ngaphandle e-ofisini."Nadezhda akazange nomsindo.

Mna ngenene babefuna ukuya kuhlangana nani."Layo ukucinywa ngomzuzu wokugqibela waba rude kwaye elingamkelekanga.

Mna wathumela kuye i-imeyile:"Volume. Lowo ngu-hayi nomsindo.

Kodwa mna kwehla isimemo ukuze ntlanganiso, kwaye bendiphantsi uncomfortable ukurhoxisa ngayo seyure phambi zethu ntlanganiso.

Yena apologized waza wacela intlanganiso elandelayo iveki wathi:"Kuya andinaku linda."Siyavumelana, ndiza apha.

Mna lesithembiso.

Ngomhla thina zahlangana lowo wandithumayo a umyalezo obhaliweyo:"ndiza uxolo, mna andinaku kuza tonight."Kunye abazobi ufuna ukuya ngqo IM (imiyalezo ekhawulezayo) ukufumana yakho personal-imeyili kwaye inombolo yefowuni. Abazithandayo ngokukhawuleza ukufumana ulwazi lobuqu malunga nawe tailor incoko yakho ifuna, tsala nge intliziyo yakho, kwaye athabathe ulawulo kuni. Barry nge-imeyili:"inkangeleko Yakho wabonakala ngomhla wokugqibela wam umrhumo. Ezibalaseleyo iifoto. Ungummi kakhulu beautiful umfazi. Ndagqiba ukuthumela lo elifutshane umyalezo.

Ndinguye handsome, mde, a gentleman, financially ekhuselekileyo, ndiya kuba bahlala bonke phezu kwehlabathi.

Ndingathanda ukwazi ngakumbi kwaye bhetele, kodwa andinguye nokuhlaziya umrhumo wam.

Ukuba akunjalo, ethiwe, apha bam-Yahoo IM ID (barricate), thuma mna i-imeyili kwi-Yahoo barricate.

Ndiza ilinde impendulo yakho. Kufuneka omkhulu mini. Barry"Donald wabhala:"Molo, ndiyathemba le leta ifumanise kuwe elungileyo lezempilo. Namhlanje mna ke, i-intanethi kunye uvale i-akhawunti yam, njengoko besele wayenolwazi ubomi iqabane lakho apha kwi-Dating thelekisa. Ngexesha cousin yam yaba yokukhangela inkangeleko yakho, xa wayeneminyaka emi emva kwam, waba kwi kum ukunxibelelana nawe. Wathi ke sounded njenge umfazi abo bafuna ukufumana ukwazi wena ngcono. Yena ubomi yakho neighborhood. Yena ke nje apha kuba utyelelo. Ngaba awuyidingi ukubhala na ngakumbi apha, ngenxa yokuba ndiya kuba isizalwana i-akhawunti yam kwi-site. Layo ngqo-imeyili Jamestown ukuba UMTHUMELI C O M ndiyathemba get in touch naye, kwaye mna isithembiso kuwe mna uphumelele khange regret kuyo. Oko warms intliziyo yam. Alpha indoda nomfazi"Donald"akanalo photo kwaye ithumela ngayo: Molo, usondele kakhulu beautiful, kwaye ndingathanda ukufumana ukwazi wena ngcono.

Allen, Umntu ngaphandle photo akuthethi ukuba deserve impendulo, kodwa ukuba ucinga ke kuyimfuneko, uyakwazi impendulo:"mna appreciate umyalezo wakho, kodwa mna andinaku okokuba wam personal nge-imeyile bolunye uhlanga okanye ngokwembalelwano ukuba abantu ngaphandle photo."Musa ngeposi a umfanekiso okanye iibhonasi photo, okanye umfanekiso ngokucacileyo ebhalwe, onzulu okanye blurry (yena akuthethi ukuba nabani na ufuna aqonde kuye).

Ulungele ukubonelela ezongezelelweyo iifoto kwaye abonise ukuba awunayo na nje iifoto. Uza kufumana umyalezo kwi Dating site, kwaye xa unqakraza ngomhla wakhe inkangeleko ukukhangela ngayo, yena sele ezifihliweyo inkangeleko yakhe ngoko ke, ukuba akukho namnye unako ukubona oko. Baya ingoma abafazi nabo bahlala kwi-kwenye imo. Uthi nguye ukuhambisa i-neighborhood oko kukuthi kukufutshane kuwe, kwaye ukuba kusoloko a"ezimnqakathi"kuba yakhe entsha loluntu ubomi. Lowo izicwangciso elide-umgama budlelwane nabanye ukufihla zabo infidelity. Molo, ndiyathemba ukuba bonke ekunene. Ezilungileyo umfanekiso.

Ndiza uxolo ukuba akunyanzelekanga ukuba siyifumene kwaye asikwazanga zalisa wam yabucala.

Andiyenzanga khetha kwenu ngenxa yam indawo kwi-Bank. Kodwa uya kuba ndonwabe ukuthumela wena incwadi. Ukuba ndinako nkqu bathethe malunga ngokwam.

Igama lam ngu Giovanni.

Mna zithe besebenza i-banking candelo kuba ngaphezulu kwama- ubudala.

Ndiza enye mhlophe indoda nomfazi.

Zange atshate, nje zange zifunyenweyo, kwaye njengoko ufumane kunoko, kuya efumana harder kwaye harder ukufumana. Brown iinwele, ngocoselelo ngwevu. Blue kwaye oluhlaza amehlo. Non-Ukutshaya, mde, mde, uqeqesho, toned, athletic, muscular umzimba, muscular axis powers, large axis powers lol. Ndibathanda nokuqubha, umsebenzi, weights, cuddles, massage, Jacuzzi, ukufunda, iimifanekiso, imbali, amaziko olondolozo lwembali, unguye, umculo, weekends, ukhenketho, emidlalo, sun, amanzi, ndinguye nabafana, kunoko abafazi ingaba ngakumbi Mature, iityuwadefault colour, kulula ukuthetha kwaye siyazi into yokuba ufuna. Ndiza ukusuka i-louisville ngoku. Thumela yam malunga isixeko, hoping ukuva kuwe. Na injongo, Uyohane xoxo: Musa wathumela yakhe endala umntu ngaphandle xa wayeneminyaka engamashumi amathandathu anesihlanu ubudala, xa wabona yakhe bald intloko, betha, kwi intloko nge punch. Yakhe essay consisted lamagama ngaphandle yaphula kuba paragraphs (gasping). Waba desperate ukuqinisekisa lowo ufunda kum okokuba waye otyebileyo, ngempumelelo, kwaye zinamandla. (Mna summarized yakhe kakhulu oluneenkcukacha-imeyili apha.)"Ndim umntu owayelilungu Oluphezulu kwaye kutshanje widowed, economically mna-ukutya, Nashville TN i-denver CO abo uthanda ukuya kutyelela isixeko kwaye uyakuthanda concerts, unguye amaziko olondolozo lwembali, iimifanekiso, theater, restaurants, iiseshoni zoqeqesho, kwaye umhla trips."Kakhulu usapho oriented kunye impumelelo ezintathu abantwana, zonke kwaye ivy League, kunye iqondo abo ngelishwa kuphila kunxweme olusentshona, ngoko ke, mna gcina indawo kwi-Portland. Mna ke kakhulu lucky financially wam iminyaka njengoko i-entrepreneur, ngoko ke, mna yavakalisa bakholelwa ukuba ndinako nika into emva ngoku, ngenxa Kathixo, ngenxa abantwana bam kwaye relatives. Mna yavakalisa bakholelwa ukuba abazali, oomawomkhulu, ukuba economically kunokwenzeka, kufuneka ahlawule kuba imfundo yabo abantwana kwaye grandchildren, kwaye ukuba bamele kwamnceda kunye yabo enkulu zonyango inkcitho, ngokunjalo uncedo kunye ukuthenga zabo ekhaya, njalo-njalo.Kodwa, njenge Uwarren Buffett, ndiyakholelwa ukuba grandchildren kufuneka kuphela ilifa imali eyaneleyo ukuze ukwazi umsebenzi umsebenzi kokuba ufuna umsebenzi, kwaye hayi ke kakhulu kuba imali ukuze ndiyakholwa kwakhona kusapho vacations ukuba ingaba imali kuba yi-oomawomkhulu abazali. Usapho lwam ngu u-unyaka ebusika vacation kwi-Hawaii kwaye ezi memories osapho vacations zithe proven yi-uphando lwenziwa ngo Elikhulu yokubhalwa umbindi affiliated kunye California-Berkeley Isebe psychology, kunye imbono yokwenza kude ulonwabo olukhulu kakhulu kunokuba accumulating expensive iimoto kwaye ngolohlobo. Ndinguye kakhulu young, eneneni ndim oldest wam iqela loluntu (ubudala), ukususela mna nampumelelo abantwana de yam emva kwexesha Iprime. EYODWA UMSEBENZI: Emva kweminyaka emihlanu ka-isigxina umhlala-phantsi, ndingathi nje bathabatha i-one-nyaka, $. part-time umsebenzi njenge yabalawuli consultant yam longtime igqwetha tutor (omnye Nashville ke ezikhokelela patrons)."Njengokuba divorced okanye widowed umfazi, ingaba ngokulinganayo insecure malunga yakho marketability? Mna nento yokuba ufuna uncedo ukuze uqonde bale mihla Dating imithetho. Makhe kuba incoko.".